The 5 date rule for girls. Why the three-date rule doesn't work. What to write in the profile

Do you like to watch comedy films about love? It is often mentioned first five date rule. How relevant is this now - in our time?

The Five Date Rule is a set of principles that give you time and the ability to logically evaluate your partner and relationship with him so that there are no disappointments in the future.

You don't have to date someone 5 times if you realize after the first date that you're not the right fit for each other. However, some distance should be kept at first so that the feeling of falling in love does not drown out the voice of reason.

first date

It is best to meet for the first time on neutral territory and in a relaxed atmosphere. The first meeting does not oblige you to anything, you are just trying to form an opinion about each other. Do not rush to jump to conclusions, they may be erroneous, as many people behave not quite naturally on a first date. Yes, and the meeting can occur in the most unusual and non-standard situations.

Choose a place where you both feel comfortable - it can be an inexpensive cafe where you order coffee or tea. Discuss your interests, hobbies, favorite movies and music. The main thing is to find common ground. The first date is best spent in a friendly atmosphere, not particularly trying to touch each other. It can be meaningless light hugs at a meeting and parting. If, after the first meeting, they start bombarding you with calls and SMS, then do not lose your head, be restrained so as not to spoil everything.

Second date

Having understood on the first date what unites you, choose a place for the second meeting. You can go to the theatre, to the cinema, to an exhibition or to a park. The first impression of the partner has already been formed, and now you evaluate his behavior, habits and reactions.

On a second date, you can let yourself be held by the hand - this indicates that you trust a man. If he is not looking for easy prey, he will calmly react to your restraint. Studies show that it is during the second meeting that the hormone phenylethylamine, which is responsible for falling in love, begins to be produced.

Third date

Choose a beautiful place for the third date where you can chat during long walks to get to know each other even better. Long conversations create the effect of rapprochement of kindred souls. Share your childhood memories with your family and friends.

Talk about what you love and what you don't. Show what you are in everyday life. Listen carefully to your interlocutor and remember what he tells you, just in case. Subsequently, you will be able to compare his stories with reality. On the third date, you can allow yourself to be hugged by the shoulders, but at the same time remain a lady and allow only your hands to be kissed.

fourth date

During the fourth date introduce your chosen one to your friends, among which may be your familiar men. In this way, you will understand how easily he approaches strangers, and how he will behave when there is someone else, male, next to you.

Usually the fourth date is filled with romantic emotions that overflow. For all compliments after this meeting, answer with a smile and a happy look. Believe me, this will be enough!

Fifth date

By the fifth date, you already know a lot of interesting things about each other and were able to see your man in various situations. If, up to this point, you have not allowed him any liberties and at the same time, he is still with you, then he appreciates you as a person. This is a positive thing.

The fifth meeting is special. It's time to get to know each other better in some special, romantic setting. Knowing each other better, understanding what character your chosen one has, sorting out your feelings, you can reciprocate the signs of attention given to you. By giving him your kiss, you will show that you trust him with the keys to your heart, and make him feel like a winner.

As you probably already understood, the main aspect in the rule of five dates is time. Both of you are given the opportunity to evaluate each other with reason, logically. Following this rule, you will not lose your vigilance, and it will be difficult to deceive you. If your chosen one could not stand five dates, then this was not your person and he simply did not deserve you.

I wish you happiness and mutual love!

Julia Yurteeva

The three-date rule is a common model for seducing girls, often mistaken for a sincere desire to create a couple. However, despite the assurances of psychologists, this set of phased seduction seems to be specially created for the convenience of guys who are not going to build strong relationships.

The Meaning of the Three Date Theory

Currently, the theory has gained wide popularity in the world. Naturally, after all, adhering to her postulates, you can fool almost any girl and get what you want in a short time.

The model itself consists of three consecutive steps:

• The first meeting is considered as an acquaintance. In fact, this process can take a long time, several days. "First Date" does not mean at all that in a short time you can intrigue a girl. Simply, it is the time needed to overcome natural incredulity;
• The second meeting is aimed at a more detailed acquaintance with the object of interest. At this time, the main task of the guy is to achieve the maximum location of the chosen one, providing the whole range of courtship, so that the girl relaxes and loses her vigilance;
• The third meeting seems to be fateful, since it is after it that sexual contact most often occurs. Homegrown psychologists who recommend girls to get acquainted with the model of three dates assure that further relationships will depend entirely on her choice, completely without taking into account the opinion of the youngest man.

Unfortunately, in most cases, the decision on a long-term relationship is now made by the partner.

And if he just once again went hunting, his collection will have another copy that was fun to spend time with.

In fact, the notorious “three dates” rule is nothing more than a shortened version of the usual seduction scheme.

All over the world, Casanovas operate on the same principle: find a victim, get acquainted, attract her attention, get close and put her to bed.

Three first dates through the eyes of a womanizer

In order to understand the scheme of actions of an experienced womanizer, it is worth considering it in more detail:

A rare young lady will refuse such an invitation on a third date, as she already uses a wedding veil in her dreams. The main thing is to gradually move from light caresses to violent hugs, without frightening the partner with incontinence of temperament.

How effective is the theory

It is believed that following this step by step instructions, a man in the vast majority of cases will achieve sexual contact. However, in Lately either women have become more cautious, or men are not so skillful, but practice shows that three dates are not enough to put an average girl to bed. Now, more and more often, not three, but five dates are required.

Also, the girl prefers to check the attitude of a man before agreeing to a second or third date.

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The first five dates - how to start a romantic relationship correctly, so as not to disappoint and not be disappointed

It usually starts with the first date, for which we prepare so carefully. First meetings are the deep foundation of future relationships. They can also indicate whether this person is right for you. Be that as it may, first dates are a kind of testing of a person we like, and it is very important to conduct this testing correctly.

What is the first five date rule

This rule is widely known around the world, but the attitude towards it is diverse. Within the framework of this rule, there are certain principles of behavior and refraining from serious expressions of feelings. The five date rule gives people the time and opportunity to think logically about compatibility. Its charm lies in the fact that you do not have to see a person as many as five times if you have disagreements and conflicts, you can stop everything at any time. It also helps to keep a certain distance, in which the feelings of falling in love do not drown out the sober voice of our mind.

first date

Let it not be an expensive restaurant or a place where you will not be smart. Find a meeting place where you both feel comfortable. It is desirable that this place somehow unites you and you can simply find topics for conversation. The first date is a business card, an exchange of interests, conversations about hobbies, you can talk a little about work. The main thing is to find common ground in your understanding of the world. On a first date, it's best not to touch each other too much. Is that meaningless light hugs at a meeting and forgiveness. Everything should be more friendly. If after the first date they are delighted with you and start showering with calls and messages, do not lose restraint, otherwise you will ruin everything.

Second date

On the first date, you should determine what unites you and, in accordance with this, choose a place for a second date. Usually on the second date they go to the cinema, theater, exhibitions, zoo, and in principle this is correct. On the second date, the topics are narrowed, it is no longer the self-portrait of a person that is being studied, but his habits, behavior and reactions. If you really like a person, you can allow yourself to be taken by the hand. Walk hand in hand, speaks of your confidence. For a man who is not looking for easy prey, this is already quite enough.

Third date

On the third date, it is advisable to go to some very beautiful place where you can walk for a long time and for hours. You are on a third date - it says that you both like each other, but liking is not enough. Long conversations will help to consolidate the effect of soul mates. You can be a little frank, talk about your family, remember your childhood. Share memories from school or some funny incidents from life. Gradually, you should show what you are in a simple life. What you love and what you don't. Continue to closely monitor the object of your sympathy. Remember what he tells you. This should still be compared and checked for compliance with reality, just in case. You can let them hug you by the shoulders, but be a lady, you can only kiss your hands.

fourth date

On the fourth date, you can experiment and introduce him to one of your friends, preferably a guy. Men feel each other better and can understand what's what. In this way, you can understand how easily he communicates with other people, whether it is easy for him to get to know them and how he will behave with you when there is someone else. Perhaps at parting you will be told a lot beautiful words. It is not worth answering them, your smile and happy eyes are enough.

Fifth date

If you've made it to the fifth date without taking the man any liberties and he's still around, that's positive progress. It means he likes your personality. This is a special date. Let it be in a romantic place. Until this day, you had time to understand the nature of your feelings, and if you realized that this is exactly what you have been looking for for so long, then you can reciprocate the courtship rendered to you with a calm heart. Give him your kiss and let him feel like a knight - a winner, because he finally got the keys to your heart.

The most important aspect of the first five dates rule is the time aspect. Since you are given the opportunity to logically synthesize the information provided. It will be very difficult to deceive you and make you lose your guard. Don't be afraid if someone can't stand five dates, he just doesn't deserve you.

The main part of the path to a successful date has been passed, you met the person you were interested in and agreed on the next meeting. How ? Simple enough - you need to stick to eight simple rules, which will help to prepare and successfully spend time on a long-awaited date.

1. Choose the right meeting date

Date for a date should not be scheduled for tomorrow or the day after tomorrow after you met. Give yourself time to prepare, cancel some of your plans, or, conversely, plan or arrange something. The more attention you give to it, the better. At the same time, don't overdo it. The more you delay, the more you worry and you may forget something or be late if you are not extremely attentive. The best time for the next meeting is within five days of meeting.

2. Choose a non-formal meeting place

When you're deciding where to have your first date, don't pick a place that's too formal. It is best to choose an informal entertainment venue. There you will not worry about what to wear, in which hand to hold the fork correctly and about others.

3. Remember the purpose of the date

Contemplating things like a meeting place appearance, topics for conversation, menus, remember the main thing. After all, the purpose of a date is to show your sympathy. Just don't overdo it. Don't push where you don't need to.

4. Be dressed impeccably

Of course, the style of your clothes will depend on where you are going to go. When you go out to places like cafes or parks, a man will have to dress in a shirt and trousers or something similar and formal, while a girl will have to wear a skirt or trousers along with a blouse or a simple dress. Do not forget to use a good perfume, put your appearance in order and put on accessories. Be perfect, but at the same time remember that you are going on a date, not to a prom.

5. Choose neutral topics for conversation

Don't bring up politics, religion, or other contentious issues unless you're sure your views are the same. There are plenty of funny things to talk about so you don't spoil your date with arguments and boasting.

Remember that a date should be interesting, it should contribute to rapprochement. Be casual, be cheerful, pleasant, and the date will go great.

6. Fresh breath

It is clear that on the first date, perhaps, there will be no talk of a kiss, but fresh breath must be taken care of in advance. You can't let something like this ruin such an important first date experience. For tips to help solve this problem, look in the article -.

7. Refresh your past

Most likely, your past relationships ended because something did not suit you in them. On the eve, sit quietly and think about what you want from a new relationship, what you no longer agree to under any pretext. Some common points can be mentioned during the conversation. By the way, don't forget the list.

8. Punctuality

I won’t say that many girls have a problem with this, but if there is, then there is a reasonable explanation for this fact - she was going on a date. Jokes are jokes, but I think it’s simply indecent to be late for half an hour or more, 5-10 minutes is the ceiling. It will be cute and girly. And about force majeure circumstances, you can warn by phone. The main rule regarding time is that the one who invites to the meeting must arrive at the exact time, and maybe earlier (in case preparation is needed, surprise).

These were the main points regarding the preparation for the date. If you follow them, I'm sure everything will go smoothly, without a hitch. But no one has yet canceled curiosities on dates.

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